Have you noticed that some people are quite chatty and others are sort of silent?
Silence can convey so many different messages across cultures. Silence can be used to express disagreement, surprise, sorrow, defiance, approval, embarrassment, obligation, criticism, calming, humility, regret, condemnation or consent and many more.
Americans believe that talking is good, that rhetoric is critical […]
As I have gotten older, I have noticed that some of my college students see me as just this old guy that has read a few books. I feel little status. However, some of my other students thank me for sharing my knowledge and ideas, and recognize and support my status.
I have a hunch this […]
Have you been knocked down and have you gotten back up? Now catch your breath. It’s time to move forward?
One of the best ways to move forward is to set some realistic goals. Nothing outrageous, nothing sensational…just set some simple goals that are sensible.
Start by taking care of yourself. Consider being […]
You may sometimes feel like a pinball in a pinball machine; pushed over here, bumped over there, and then getting your bell rung. Sometimes you may wonder about the benefit of perseverance. You keep clawing back, fighting your way back to the top of your game, just to face changes and challenges, again.
Professionally, you may have had to deal with a lot of changes and challenges at work. Personally, you now may have aging parents and friends with serious health concerns. You sometimes may just want to throw in the towel and give up. You may need a dose of resilience.
If you look up the word resilience […]