Men are from Fleet Farm; Women are from Nordstrom
Understanding and Improving Communication Between Men and Women
Gender Responsible Leadership: Gender Communication in the Workplace
Men Are From Fleet Farm; Women Are From Nordstrom
If you haven’t noticed, men and women communicate differently. For twenty years I have been collecting communication strategies that help improve communication between men and women. Neither style is better, just different. Unlock the secrets to success in understanding and improving communication with opposite sex.
Click “Play” to watch a brief video featuring Kit Welchlin from this presentation:
Men and women often misunderstand each other. Though we don’t plan or expect to make life difficult for each other, we often mistake the ideas and feelings of a person of the other sex.
We can understand and improve communication between men and women.
Participants will learn…
- the four viewpoints on gender communication
- the seven levels of gender communication in the workplace
- the differences in conversation
- the differences in vocabulary and nonverbal communication
- how relationships are created and maintained
Understand male and female realities, the new male-female relationship, and provide gender-responsible leadership!
Men and women use different vocabulary and communication strategies. Let’s visit some of the differences in the way men and women communicate:
- Men use more swearing, hostility, profanity and expletives
- Women use 5-7 times more intensifiers, hedges, adjectives and qualifies – maybe, sort of, kind of, etc.
- Women have a greater repertoire of adjectives and a more expansive vocabulary
- Men interrupt women more often than women interrupt men
- Women are more aware of turn-taking in conversations
- Women ask questions instead of making statements – hinting
- Men don’t get the hint
- Men use more space, dominance cues – speak louder, indirect body posture
It is important to be aware of the differences in how each gender communicates so that we can understand more fully each conversation and not take things too personally. In order to enrich your conversations make sure when speaking with the opposite gender you understand how they communicate.
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